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The handshake

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The handshake

This sketch by William Hawkins depicts him (centre, wearing a bowler hat) greeting his sailor cousin, Thomas Bailey, on board the Kaikoura in Wellington Harbour on 5 February 1867. The men had not seen each other for two and a half years. Shaking hands was until quite recently the only socially acceptable way for adult Anglo-Saxon men to greet or farewell each other, even if they were close relatives.

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Alexander Turnbull Library

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by William Webster Hawkins

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Nancy Swarbrick, Manners and social behaviour – Defining manners, Te Ara – the Encyclopedia of New Zealand, https://teara.govt.nz/en/artwork/39830/the-handshake (accessed 3 June 2026).

Story by Nancy Swarbrick, published 3 December 2012.