Kōrero: Families: a history

Families in 19th-century photos may seem very different from our own, with eight or nine children, and mother and father in clearly defined roles. Family photos now might show different stories but the sense of belonging remains as important as ever.

He kōrero nā Ian Pool and Rosemary Du Plessis
Te āhua nui: Wedding party, Wairarapa, 1909

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19th- to mid-20th-century families

Families in the 19th century were large – Pākehā women had on average seven children each, Māori women six. In the early 20th century Pākehā began to marry later, and birth rates dropped to around two per woman.

Grandparents, parents and children lived together in Māori households. Most Pākehā households were just parents and children, although some included elderly grandparents, other relatives, or friends.

Mothers and fathers had different roles, especially in the cities. Men were the breadwinners, who went out to earn money. Women took care of the house and children. In rural areas, women and children joined men in work on farms and in small businesses.

Mothers without male support survived doing paid work. A Widows’ Pension was introduced in 1911, but it wasn’t until 1946 that all mothers could access the Family Benefit.

The baby boom

After the Second World War there was a ‘baby boom’, when Pākehā women had three or four children each. Women who got pregnant outside marriage would usually marry before the birth.

In the 1970s Pākehā and Māori birth rates both dropped to around two births per woman. This did not change over the next three decades. Pacific women tended to have more children on average, and Asian women fewer.

Families since the 1970s

People had begun to question traditional ideas about families. From the 1970s more mothers were involved with paid work and had on average only two children. However, in the early 21st century mothers were still more involved with childcare than fathers.

In 1973 the Domestic Purposes Benefit, a payment by the state for solo parents was introduced. This enabled more women to raise children on their own, or to leave their husbands. Divorce became more common.

As parents entered new relationships, many children were brought up with step- or half-siblings. Some children moved between their separated parents. Some were raised by parents in gay or lesbian relationships.

In 2017 nearly half of all children were born outside marriage, often to couples in committed relationships. Fertility rates have been decreasing for women in all age groups in the 21st century. The median age of childbearing was 30 years in 2013, but differed for women of different ethnicities: 30.74 years for those of European descent and other women, 25.85 years for Māori, 27.19 years for Pasifika and 30.77 for Asian women. The teenage fertility rate has been dropping steadily. It was 15 live births per 1,000 women aged 15–19 years in 2017 – half the rate in 2008.

Me pēnei te tohu i te whārangi:

Ian Pool and Rosemary Du Plessis, 'Families: a history', Te Ara - the Encyclopedia of New Zealand, http://www.TeAra.govt.nz/mi/families-a-history (accessed 16 July 2024)

He kōrero nā Ian Pool and Rosemary Du Plessis, i tāngia i te 5 o Mei 2011, updated 1 o Hūrae 2017